One of the important factors of a relationship is compatibility. The more the soulmates are compatible with each other, the stronger their relationship. The famous saying, opposite attracts gives firm affirmations, that difference in qualities of partners, add balance to their relationships.
At the same time, if there are too many differences can ultimately ruin a relation. Do you believe that the more compatible you are with your partner, the more successful your relationship will likely be? How will you rate your relationship with your partner?
5 Types of Compatibility in Relationships
There are various types of compatibility in relationships, to examine while choosing a life partner. It’s not possible to have all of them in your relationship. But the more aligned you too are, the stronger your relationship will be. Today we are discussing the 5 Types of Compatibility in Relationships.
Physical
To start any relationship, physical compatibility for one another is important in a relationship. It is very important that your partner gets attracted to you. It’s believed that “Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.” and we all have set preferences for a life partner. Nevertheless, physical compatibility is very important in a relationship.
Emotional
A relationship can’t work if there is no emotional connection. No matter how much you are attracted physically, but when you talk to them, you don’t feel connected.
For the longevity of a relationship, emotional nurturing like trust, understanding, support plays a vital role. If after meeting, you feel that you are knowing this person for long then you have strong emotional compatibility.
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Education & Financial
For me, it’s not necessary that you have to be with someone who has the exact same level of education. We have so many examples, who have a different level of education and have a successful relationship.
However, couples who share similar educational backgrounds, are usually better suited for each other. They share the same level of professional experience and are more connected to each other. And having similar education, they share the same wavelength.
It’s well known that love can’t fill your stomach, for this you should be financially secure. Financial Compatibility is very important for a relationship to work. If your partner is responsible for their finances, that strengthens your bonds.
At the same time, if both the partners are earning and if someone earning more, especially when the female partner earns more, than It may hurt the male ego. It’s seen the couples fight mostly on monetary issues. This can be balanced if you share similar financial goals and habits.
Friends and family
Do you like to get along with each other’s friends and family? Did their presence strengthen your relationship? It’s very important for a relationship, that you are comfortable with spending time with your partner friends and family. At the same time, if their family issues, become too stressful will have a negative effect on your relationship.
Zodiac Sign Compatibility To Rescue
Wouldn’t it be easier if there was a template that could guide us on our partner’s reactions to various situations in life? Here come astrological zodiac signs. Along with personality traits and temperament, zodiac sign compatibility reveals a lot of details and insights on any relationship.
Though you two might not be a classic match in astrological terms, you both can sail through your relationship by understanding each other’s personality traits. Zodiac Sign reveals liking and dislikings that helps to balance the relationship accordingly.
You both can read each other sun sign and this would give you a perspective from each other’s point of view. For example, two Pisces people make a great combination, but being a little introvert they can face some issues. This can be easily balanced by knowing their respective sun signs traits. If your sun sign is not compatible, still the two can relate well with each other. Though in some relationships, one has to put in extra efforts that will strengthen your relationship.
What to do if you are not compatible?
If things don’t work, still there are many ways to work out.
- Work on yourself and for the betterment of your relationship.
- Accept the reality as not every love story is a fairy tale.
- Leave the relationship. (I don’t support this)
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Always remember that for a relationship to work, the only person you can change is yourself. You can’t force your partner to change. If things don’t work, respect each other’s point of view and move on.
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I agree. Most of this plays a part and yet, as you said at the end, even if we fall short in some aspects, if we work hard and are committed to the relationship, it will succeed.
Very well explained…
I completely agree with you on the point of Financial Compatibility. Opening doors of communication and understanding each other is the way ahead. Thank you for writing such a lovely post – I am sure it will serve as a guiding light to many millennial couples.
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Bang on post. The only person we can change is us, very true.
Interesting read on tips for relationship. Zodiac reading helped me to save my marriage relationship.
No relationship is a fairy tale. You need to work on it in every way you can and then leave the rest to destiny. It it has to work, it will…!
Interesting post. I do believe that emotional compatibility ia the most important of the five types mentioned
Yes compatibility in every area will flourish the relationship. Good pointers in the post.
One suggestion, please increase the post text font for better readability.
Cheers
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Well, it is very important to have a blend of all these points. I like the way you described emotional connect a lot.
Very nicely discussed the issues and very much logical note at the end.
Apt post, one has to work on keeping the spark alive by working on self as well as relationship too.
Marriage is commitment for a life time between two people. It requires not just compatibility but maturity to handle a relationship such that acceptance forms an integral part of it. I agree one has to work hard to better oneself while the other has to lower the expectations too, such that both reach a common ground of understanding. Well covered! Cheers!
Hello Dr.Bushra , Many thanks. The crucial points you have elaborated about Compatibility in relationship are universal truths and can be applied to spouses as well as other close relations too. Liked your approach of improving ourselves & adjusting , instead of blaming others. #MyFriendAlexa #SujatawderReads
Better half they are called for a reason- two halfs complement each other to make a whole. It’s extremely important that the partners are compatible.
Very well written post.
This is a piece that all newly-weds should read if only to strengthen their bond. The initial euphoria disappears and if the couple work at their marriage, theirs can be a match made in heaven and nurtured on earth. Wonderful points, thank you!
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For a successful marriage, both need to evolve, learn, make sacrifices and compromise. It always take two to Tango.
Nicely written article.
I really believe your partner should be someone you can laugh with rather than someone you have a steamy chemistry with, the former lasts much longer.
Relationship compatibility exists, first and foremost, when a couple relates with equality and respect. It’s important for couples to have fun together and really enjoy the time they spend together. Relationships thrive when two people share companionship and activities. However, a couple doesn’t have to have every interest in common.
Bahut hi alag subject hai aur aaone pura justice kiya hai, aapki har baat se agree hu ??
Khud ko change karna n reality accept karna sabse samjhdaari ka kaam hai
The Emotional Compatibility with my partner is a priority which is followed by Financial Compatibility. Trust and Understanding each other help in taking the relationship a long way. Great post
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I think we chase the perfect love story too much… You just need to sit back and acknowledge each others imperfection.. Because hey isnt it what attracted you to the person. Imperfection is good.. But then that’s just me
I loved the concluding words of your post. Yes, I made a conscious effort to change myself and figured the thingsI could do to change my husbands attitude towards certains aspects of our marriage. It took me a long time, but then I realised not to expect anything makes life very easy. Around the same time, husband started wondering why I wasn’t making any demands of him. hehe! he kind of freaked out and started to take care of my expectatoins, without me wording them. The magic worked!
Very accurate conclusion. We have to change ourselves if any relationship has to work.
I noticed that you mentioned that you don’t support leaving the relationship. I have witnessed a lot of bad relationships where people hang on just because leaving isn’t ‘right’ or it is scary. If the most important person in your life is no way compatible for you, you won’t find happiness anywhere else or in anything else. I think when a relationship turns toxic, it is important for people to know that there is an option to leave. If in marriages, there are children, people hold on to the marriage ‘for the children’. But a bad marriage could ruin the children and your fate could befall the next generation because you’re the example to them of a marriage.
Relationship and compatibility write ups are always so interesting. I agree with your thoughts on the types of compatibility. I feel all these things matter when the relationship is new and budding. But once you are in a
deep relationship for a long time, all these things can be worked out with mutual understanding.
Totally agree with all the pointers mentioned by you. The post is very refreshing, I enjoyed reading it. it is not mandatory to be like minded always to stay in a relationship.
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I believe there is also something called spiritual compatibility – this has to do with your life values and beliefs. What do you think?
Opposites attract.
Well written post dear. I strongly agree to the above pointers. It is very important to respect your spouse, understand them and stand for them. Most importantly, zodiac compatibility is very crucial 🙂
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I am sure not only new weds every couple should read these compatibility factors once in a while. Very nicely written.
Relationship compatibilities are very important in every relationship. A friend in the partner is all what one looks for.
Such a bang on post . compatibility is definitely the key to good relationship.
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Accepting the reality and trying to making the best of the current situation is what we can do. No two people are alike so embracing each other with plus and minuses is the key for a happy and healthy relationship.
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A very well written post. I also liked how you ended the article. The only person we can change is ourself.
I agree. When something doesn’t work, we only have to change ourselves.
That’s a thought provoking post. Compatibility means a lot on healthy and happy relationship. Be it personal or financial
Emotions play a vital role in maintaining relationships. However, financial and eductaional backgrounds are equally important because love alone can’t feed humans.
Compatibility is important in relationships. You’ve narrowed it down quite well. Respect, communication and trust play a big role in making it work too.
Compatibility can be attained if one is committed tot the relationship. I was married off to a man with whom I had nothing in common whatsoever. But I knew I had to make my marriage work and I worked towards that. These days couples have forgotten the tenets on what a marriage rests. Nobody wants to compromise, none wants to sacrifice, there is no trust, communication is less. So compatibility from the outset is looked for but for how long it lasts is debatable. Interesting points there 🙂 #wordsmithkaurreads
Relationships are so complicated but we must look at the simple compatibility terms and see how it goes from there
Nice analysis, relationships require so many factors to run smoothly..
Thanks for putting such a complex issue in so simplified and pointwise manner